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You see the child, you will see yourself – Sohu maternal and child every moment, you see the child, you will see yourself, you educate your children, but also to educate themselves, and test their personality." — the great educator Sue Home Linsky one day, as a university teacher friend told me about his primary school the third grade children, husband and wife two is a doctor, the wife of a friend or "turtle", but the son is the result of the countdown to the first class, he asked me why, I said your wife is so capable. He thought it was a joke, I think that in his wife busy career, he said, no, my wife every day with his homework, every time is less than five minutes, will fly into a rage of shouting at them, "how can you be so stupid!". I said, you see, the problem is here, your son’s mother is so clever, he is so small how could he be smarter than his mother? I do not know whether we have noticed many biographies describing how the mother’s mother is gentle, virtuous, considerate, she always silently for child sacrifice without complaint, mother strong, kind-hearted, assertive, no matter what you can’t like mother…… These words are not very familiar with? It is the mother who is capable of producing such a wonderful child. Because the child has an instinctive dependence on the mother in the young, so the mother’s character, language and behavior will affect the child’s life. How to make the child’s personality habit is not the direction of the development of the character of the mother and mother inherited the advantages? The best way is the mother must converge their edge in front of the children, to become a true sense of the mother. The mother in front of the children, not at the negotiating table, do not need to use critical and perfect vision to look at the child, mother’s overbearing attitude, sarcastic ridicule language, behavior and control all the opinionated judgment of the child’s self-esteem, self-confidence more harm than education. For the child, from the moment he was born, the child’s mother to the role of the request, almost constant. 1 before entering the door, forget their unpleasant mother before entering the house, be sure to remind yourself: forget all the unpleasant things in the unit, and now began to assume the role of the mother. Children need a mother is very happy, do not put the child has nothing to do with the bad mood passed on to the child, because the child is innocent. 2 little children interested in honor when the child told the mother today in his school got a star or when the little red, don’t show off or a contemptuous disregard must praise him, and his son happily like. The best way to do this is to show his mother that he wants to share this happiness with him, because it is very important for children. 3 "ignorance" to the mother when the child asked his mother, "how to pronounce the word" and so on the question, the best mom don’t immediately answer him, the worst answer is "how do you even do not know the word". Mom had better look after, say, ah, I do not know, we look up the dictionary, okay? After a few times, the mother taught the children to use the dictionary相关的主题文章: